Devestating time...need thoughts and opinions...?

You need to write something like this to Jon. You need to tell him that being the person you are you can not help but try to help everyone in your life. You clearly hate upsetting people and seem to try and look after everyone. I don't think u did the wrong thing at all. I think you should say to Jon you completely understand where he is coming from but if he loves you he would know that this is not a case of whether or not you have mislead him but a case of you just bein the woman he fell for. The kind, considerate woman that can not help but care. You obviously feel awful about this so tell him so. If he doesn't believe in then he wasn't the man ur made for x